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About me
Hi there!
I’m Tosin, a wellness enthusiast who believes in the healing magic of connection and the gentle power of touch. As a June-born Cancerian, I bring all the nurturing vibes you’d expect—plus a dash of humor to keep things light and cozy.
I’m here to facilitate safe, judgment-free spaces where you can unwind, share a laugh, and feel truly at ease. Whether you’re seeking stress relief, comfort, or just a little human connection, I’ve got you covered—literally!
Let’s enjoy a warm conversation, a peaceful space, some uplifting thoughts—plus a few good laughs— as we discover the magical energy of platonic and emotional support together.


Feeling seen & Secured
Within every heart lies the innate longing to be truly seen, deeply valued, and securely held. It’s in this connection that we discover our greatest strength, our truest joy, and the wholeness we’ve always sought.
It is in this sacred interaction that we uncover life’s most transformative truths. Here, we discover our greatest strength—the courage to live boldly and love fully.

Touch Therapy
Touch: The Gentle Embrace of Connection
Human touch is one of the most profound healers of stress and loneliness. Whether it’s through a warm hug, a loving massage, or simply holding hands, touch reminds us of our shared humanity. Even self-touch—like gently rubbing your temples or placing your hand over your heart—can send signals of safety and love to your nervous system. It’s a language of care that transcends words

Reduce Stress & Increase Oxytocin
Experience the magic of connection with a cuddle buddy—a comforting presence that helps melt away stress and fill your days with warmth. Through simple yet meaningful interactions like touch, laughter, and shared moments, your body naturally releases oxytocin, the "love hormone," fostering feelings of calm, trust, and happiness.
With a cuddle buddy, you can create a safe, judgment-free space where you feel valued, supported, and at ease. Whether it’s a heartfelt conversation, a relaxing hug, or quiet time together, these moments don’t just ease stress—they nurture your well-being and build deeper connections. Rediscover the joy of companionship and let every embrace bring balance and peace to your life

Sound: The melody of comfort
Sound has a way of reaching places words cannot. Listening to gentle music, calming nature sounds, or the hum of a loved one's voice can ease tension and create feelings of safety. Daily moments of silence are just as powerful—allowing you to hear your own thoughts and connect with your inner self. Sound invites you to pause, breathe, and rediscover the rhythm of your life.

Frequently asked questions

Cuddling and sleep depravation!
Why Sleep Doesn’t Have to Be a Struggle (And How Cuddles Might Help!)
Oh, I get it. There’s nothing quite like the frustration of tossing and turning all night, hoping sleep will finally show up. It’s like your pillow is playing hard to get. Lack of sleep can make everything feel like it’s piling on—stress, anxiety, even sadness—and leave you feeling like a zombie the next day. But I want to remind you: if you’re struggling with sleep, there’s nothing wrong with you. Sometimes, our minds and bodies just need a little extra TLC to get into that sweet, restful groove.
Sleep issues can be caused by a ton of factors—stress, anxiety, hormonal shifts, or maybe your bed just isn’t as cozy as it could be. When we feel overstimulated or emotionally disconnected, our nervous systems can go into overdrive, making it super hard to wind down. Add racing thoughts and unresolved emotions to the mix, and it’s no wonder sleep becomes elusive. But here's the thing: it’s not just about how much you sleep—it’s about how you prepare your body and mind for it.
The Sleep-Saving Power of Touch
One thing many people don’t realize is that non-sexual social touch—like a hug, cuddle, or even just a warm, comforting presence—can do wonders for improving your sleep. No, seriously. When you snuggle up with someone, your body releases oxytocin, that magical “love hormone.” And guess what? Oxytocin isn’t just about bonding and trust—it also works like a reset button for your stress levels. It lowers cortisol (aka the “ugh, I’m stressed!” hormone), slows your heart rate, and basically prepares you to drift off into a peaceful slumber.
For anyone feeling disconnected, anxious, or emotionally drained, the healing power of non-sexual touch can be a total game changer. It’s like your body’s version of a “soft reset,” allowing you to release tension and ease into a restful state. So, if you’re the kind of person whose mind races at bedtime or you’re just missing that sense of comfort, a cuddle buddy might be exactly what you need to get the Zzzs you deserve.
How a Cuddle Buddy Can Help You Sleep Better
Let’s talk about cuddle buddies, shall we? Whether it’s just lying next to someone who gives off good vibes or sharing a comforting, non-judgmental hug, the presence of a cuddle buddy can do wonders for your body and mind. When someone else is there to hold space for you, it can create a sense of security and relaxation that’s hard to find on your own. It’s not just about proximity—it’s about feeling held and cared for, which makes your body feel safe enough to let go of the day and fully relax.
A Little Bedtime Hack for You
Tonight, before you try to wrestle with sleep again, let’s do something a little different: create a bedtime ritual that actually encourages relaxation. Start by dimming the lights and ditching the screens at least 30 minutes before bed. (Yes, I know—goodbye, endless scrolling!) You could also try listening to calming music or a guided meditation to settle your thoughts. And if you’re feeling open to it, try cuddling up with a companion. A simple touch, a peaceful presence, or even just holding hands can work wonders in quieting your mind and making you feel safe.
Because here’s the thing: you deserve deep, restful sleep. It might take a little patience and compassion, but with the right support (and maybe a cuddle or two), that sleep you’re dreaming of is totally within reach.
Take care of yourself, give yourself the comfort you need, and let the rest follow. Sweet dreams are closer than you think.
With warm hugs (and better sleep),
Your Cuddle Cheerleader 💖🌙

Healing Touch
cuddling and its physical healing benefits.
Cuddling: Your New Favorite Health Hack
Let’s face it: we all love a good cuddle. But did you know that snuggling up isn’t just about feeling cozy—it’s actually an underrated superhero when it comes to your health and emotional well-being? Yep, cuddling has some pretty magical benefits for both your mind and body. So, let’s dive in and explore why cuddles are basically the wellness trend you didn’t know you needed (but totally do).
Immune System Support: Yes, Your Cuddle Can Fight Germs!
Boosts oxytocin: Cuddling is like a VIP pass to oxytocin—the hormone that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside. But it does more than just spark happiness—it helps your immune system kick into high gear, fighting off those pesky infections.
Lowers cortisol: Say goodbye to stress! Physical touch (like cuddling) helps lower cortisol, the stress hormone that can actually make you sick. Less cortisol = more resilience.
Serotonin = Happiness: When you're feeling safe and connected, your brain is like, "Let’s release all the good stuff." That means more serotonin, which helps lift your mood and keeps you feeling balanced, calm, and, well, just better.
Stress Relief & Emotional Comfort: Because We All Need a Break
Bye-bye stress: If you’re feeling frazzled or overwhelmed, cuddling is like hitting the “reset” button for your mind. Just a quick 20-second hug can trigger your body’s relaxation response, instantly soothing anxiety.
Therapeutic hugs: Hugs aren’t just for when you’re feeling down—they’re powerful. During tough times, the simple act of being held can provide a deep sense of emotional comfort, making the world feel a little more manageable.
Pain Relief: Cuddling to the Rescue
Eases physical pain: Whether you’ve got a headache, muscle tension, or just general discomfort, cuddling can work wonders. It’s not just about emotional comfort—it can actually help ease physical pain, too. Your body just loves a good snuggle!
Heart & Blood Pressure Health: That’s right, cuddling isn’t just a feel-good thing—it’s a heart good thing. Snuggling has been shown to help lower blood pressure, so your heart stays happy and healthy. Plus, cuddling promotes circulation, which keeps your body running smoothly.
Emotional & Mental Well-being: Cuddle Your Way to a Better Mood
Fighting off the blues: Feeling down? A hug or cuddle can help release endorphins, those magical little hormones that make you feel better and more energized. It’s like a mood boost in the form of a hug.
Fights fatigue: Cuddling isn’t just a way to relax—it’s an effective remedy for exhaustion, both physical and emotional. By calming your nervous system, cuddling helps you feel more rested and ready to take on the world (or at least your to-do list).
Improves focus: A cuddle can even help clear your mind, allowing you to concentrate better when you’re feeling scattered or overwhelmed. It’s like a mini mental reset, and who doesn’t need that?
The Power of a Cuddle Buddy Companion
Let’s be real: sometimes, we all need a little extra TLC. Whether you’re feeling anxious, stressed, or just need some emotional support, a cuddle buddy is there for you. Here’s what a cuddle buddy can do for you:
Ease stress: Sometimes, all it takes is a warm, comforting presence to melt the stress away. A cuddle buddy helps calm your mind and gives you a much-needed break.
Lift your spirits: Just a few minutes of cuddling can trigger those feel-good hormones, helping to lift your mood and make you feel more connected to others.
Emotional support: When you're feeling lonely or sad, a cuddle buddy can provide a safe, compassionate touch, letting you feel seen, heard, and cared for.
A Little Tip for Your Soul
Feeling stressed or overwhelmed? Try this: take a moment to close your eyes, give yourself a hug (yes, you can totally hug yourself), and take a few deep breaths. Imagine the warmth and comfort of a cuddle as you breathe in peace. It's like giving yourself a mini spa day for your heart—and it's one of the simplest ways to reconnect with your own sense of calm.
And hey, if you're in need of a little extra love, don’t hesitate to reach out to a cuddle buddy. The act of cuddling is so much more than just physical comfort—it’s about feeling emotionally cared for and deeply connected. So go ahead, grab that cuddle, and let the healing begin.
Remember, you totally deserve to feel supported and nurtured. Sometimes, all you need is a good cuddle to get back to feeling like yourself again.
With all the warmth and comfort,
Your Healing Companion 💖🌸

Cuddle code of conduct!
1. Client and Practitioner both verify that they are at least the legal age of consent in their location.
2. Client and Practitioner both agree to be free from any mind-altering substances during the sessions and are thereby fully able to give consent.
3. Client agrees to fully disclose any diagnoses or conditions that may affect their cuddling session to the Practitioner.
4. Client and Practitioner both agree to practice consent and attention to personal boundaries at all times.
5. Client and Practitioner will communicate to find what is mutually comfortable throughout each cuddling session. This applies to all communication prior to and after sessions as well.
6. This is a strictly platonic service. Client and Practitioner both agree to not pursue or encourage sexual arousal. Also:
- Minimum clothing of tank top and shorts that cover the top half of the thigh and are suitable to be worn in public for both Client and Practitioner at all times.
- No hand to genital or breast contact. No intentional genital stimulation of any kind.
- No exchanging of saliva, or any other bodily fluid, in any way.
7. Client and Practitioner both agree to respectful personal hygiene.
8. Client confidentiality is to be respected at all times.
9. Either Client or Practitioner may end the session at any time.
10. All feedback is valued and confidential. Client and Practitioner agree to let Cuddlist.com know if either party does not uphold this code of conduct during a Cuddlist session through our feedback form.